For guys to better talk to girls, to generally understand them maybe a bit better, is to talk like a girl. I said that in class without clarifying and I had several responses from classmates of disagreement and flapping hands. Although it may seem that way, and it is funny to think about it that way isn't it? :) to talk like a girl, is to think like a girl. Let me explain before you go off into another spectrum. The time I spend relaxing and hanging out after a long day is with a reasonably large group of guys. I've done this for a while as girls are scary and they hold grudges till they die. But I've noticed after a while, guys really do talk considerably different than women. Guys have a way of topping each other in every thing they say to each other. Ex., my workout was this, next guy casually puts in how many more pull ups than he did. Femals usually don't do that. When a guy talks to a girl, think of it. If he tries to seem utterly superior, girls usually get uncomfortable. Talk like you care what you say, and what they say giving examples of things relating to what they say. Talk like a girl. Think like a girl so as to better connect to them. Isn't that the objective to get a girl to talk to you? Or like you? Connect with them!