We have all seen how some parents are. "the cool" parents we see, the kids don't have much respect to their parents. And as a child, when I saw kids whining and getting or doing whatever they want, I would cringe. Because I knew my parents respected me enough to say what are you doing? You know better. And in that way, they placed responsibility with my self and I had the maturity to rein it in. Plus I love my parents and respect them enough I where I do break their trust, or hurt their feelings, I feel absolutely aweful and guilty. When that does happen, they stop the loving words and contact. And I feel empty and alone. Because I love them so much, I never want to purposefully tread on their fingers lifting me up. Because I love them so much <3